For Niccolò Machiavelli, that question wasn’t philosophical, it was neccessary for survival. Machiavelli delivers a series of laws not for the faint-hearted, but for those who want to understand and see the world as it truly is.
Here is his first and perhaps most controversial lesson.
“It is not necessary for a leader to possess all the good qualities; it is enough to appear to have them.”
In modern terms, that means this: “reputation is your armour, reality is your battlefield.”
Let’s explore why virtue is not a strategy, but a mask, and what that means in leadership, business, and everyday life.
We are frequently taught that we will get respect and loyalty if we are truthful, giving, kind, and equitable. However, Machiavelli recognised this delusion. He personally witnessed betrayal and manipulation, and has been overthrown by leaders who exercised sincere leadership.
Why? since people aren't always thankful or logical. Leaders who set an example of moral behaviour expect others to follow. However, in practice, there are plenty of people in the world who will use virtue as a weapon to further their own agendas.
The Machiavellian insight is brutally harsh however it is true: people respect power more than goodness, especially in uncertain times.
In Machiavelli’s view, it’s not who you are, it’s who people think you are.
This isn’t about lying or being fake it’s about playing the game of perception. Machiavelli saw that power often lies not in being honest, but in being strategic about when and how you reveal your true intentions.
To think like Machiavelli you have to realise that your reputation is leverage. It gives you room to manoeuvre, strike, negotiate, and survive.
Centuries later, Machiavelli’s first law is more relevant than ever.
Think of:
In each case, power stems from how they are looked at, not necessarily from who they are behind the curtain.
This isn’t deception, it’s calculated positioning. It’s knowing that you are judged based on image, not internal virtue.
This lesson isn’t an invitation to become cruel or dishonest. It’s a wake-up call: don’t lead with your heart and expect the world to reward you for it.
Instead, Machiavelli encourages us to:
Every display of virtue must serve a purpose. If it doesn’t, it risks becoming a vulnerability.
Machiavelli simply pulled back the curtain and said, “Don’t confuse being virtuous with being safe.”
To live and lead by Machiavelli’s first law, is not to say you must abandon your values but rather to understand how, when, and why to display them.
The goal isn’t to become heartless. It’s to ensure your heart doesn’t get you hurt.
“Be whatever you must be but always appear noble.”
Master the art of appearance, and you’ll gain the freedom to act with precision, not desperation.